IntroductionRegarding life and business, it is no coincidence that some people always seem to fail, while others always seem to flourish. Of course, opportunity plays an important role in everything. But as individuals, business owners, thinkers and parents, we have a great deal of control over our lives.Now, we can use the controls that must affect the result in the negative direction. Or we can use it to influence our results and gain the support of those we care about most.When we use it incorrectly or don't use it at all, it's no surprise that the results are not good. And, when we use it thoughtfully and carefully, it should come as no surprise that a reason for success should also be present.Let me give you an example. At work, your employer thinks you have been promoted; however, at the same time, they also consider some of your colleagues for promotion.